I get any changes to my own account and profile PRIVACY to save?

I have tried over and over to change my settings from public to private, especially in searches outside of Geni, and none of the changes I make will actually "save". I can't change them for my own account and profile, nor can I change them for my family's profiles that I manage. Is this some way to get people to pay and subscribe? I even tried to delete the profiles and it doesn't let me do that either. What is going on? ALL of my private info (name, photo, location, birth info, relationships including my children, etc) is open for the public to view if my name is Googled because I can't change the settings on this site.