My SON, who is living, showed up as VISIBLE on the "smart match" feature on someone else's family page on My Heritage, even though I already changed the setting on my data to try to keep my private profiles private. I consider this to be a violation of the Privacy policy of GENI.com.
I can't even contact the owner of that page to have her hide it without a $120/year subscription. I consider My Heritage to be an affront to the fact that I am already a PAID subscriber to GENI, and the MyHeritage records are all from publicly available sources, INCLUDING GENI, to begin with.
NO LIVING PERSON nor their PARENTS should ever show up on MyHeritage "smart match" at all, and there should be NO requirement to "opt out" to make people invisible on MyHeritage who are already INVISIBLE ON GENI because they are Living Persons. What is the most common "security question" on your login accounts? Your Mother's Maiden Name!
The DEFAULT should be for all GENI PRIVATE profiles to remain invisible on MyHeritage.