"DNA match notifications"

today for the first time (after being on site for a few weeks) I got an email (*****I am administrator for my husband s DNA kit.....he is ill and Im trying to find relatives for desparetely needed medical issue)  I corresponded with someone (and Im extremely new to DNA research) so I sent her a couple of correspondences regarding my husbands search and she sent me a copy of Geni policies suggesting I was a law breaker of site and impersonating someone       This is crap.....why would your site notify us of a "CLOSE MATCH" and nit show where to fiind ones DNA data????