Are there different circumstances for the relationship to be displayed as:
Bob SMITH is your second cousin once removed ex-husband
YOU -> Mary BROWN (your mother) -> etc
and
Bob SMITH is Joe SMITH's second cousin once removed ex-husband
Joe SMITH (you) -> Mary BROWN (your mother) -> etc
Hi Rhonda, we will display the shortest relationship to you/focus person. Otherwise, you may be seeing the one which was cached or calculated first.
I refer to whether my name (Joe SMITH) is used or generic (You).
It'll say "You" if you are viewing the relationship path on the profile page. It will say your name if you are viewing it on the relationship path page. This is because that page and diagram are meant to be shared.