When both baptize date and location are different, the assistant only updates the date

When both baptize date and location are different, the assistant only updates the date

It would be nice when the assistant could remember user actions for a record, so it could skip actions for the other source records with exactly the same information.
Like for https://www.geni.com/people/Arie-Punt/6000000019658648803 there are 2 records for baptism with the same information for date, location and parents. So for he second record there should be no need to update Geni anymore for those fields after the first record is processed.
The source records have information about both parents, so the assistant should ask about both of them.
There is problem with these collections for the name format of the parents. In most collections it is first name, patronymic and last name, but here it is first name, last name, patronymic.
When a user indicates that a parent already exists and the source record has a name for the parent that is not exactly the same, the assistant should add the different information to the AKA field for that parent (if it is not already there).